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Friday, June 4, 2010

"But thank you Danny, I now have my full time job...!!!" Dad's Life in the Fast Lane!!!

Praise God!!!

3 weeks have passed since Daniel was born. As proud new parents we are excitedly behind every move and sound that the little one is making. And as a proud Dad I am constantly in the kitchen cooking food ensuring that my Wife gets her daily meals on time while she is resting with our Baby.

Deciding what to cook for breakfast, lunch and dinner is easy. Cooking it is'nt so easy. Atleast it was easier when I was a Bachelor as I just had to cook once a day and that too only if I was desperately hungry. Now, chopping, grinding and boiling is done almost 3 times a day. After cooking I have to wash the dishes. Then it's time to bathe little Danny, all the more important that I don't forget to switch on the water heater hours earlier.

Later I have to do the laundry- Parents clothes separate, Baby clothes separate in baby washing powder, dark clothes separate, white clothes separate and colour clothes separate. That's why laundry also takes days to complete. Once washed, they are out out in the sun to dry. By evening I take them all back inside.

In between all this I make sure that I clean up all the mess and tidy everything in the house. Not to forget vaccuming and running up and down the stairs each nappy change time in order to get a new nappy and throw away the dirty one. As I cook, raw materials get over. So it's time now to buy groceries. Timely service of providing health drinks or boiled cumin water for my wife to drink.

While my wife requires a break, I am the sole substitute for holding our baby, helping him burp which normally takes plenty of hours and also being the perfect clown so that his loud cries will stop- a role which I am proud to play. If I am destined, then I can get a chance to check my Emails, Orkut, Facebook, Twitter and YouTube accounts. If I am privileged then I get extra few minutes to take photos, upload them, blog, browse, make phone calls, and sit down with my legs on the stool.

After a long day's hectic schedule, I try to get some sleep in the night. Why try?- Because our baby who was born in the afternoon loves to sleep all day and mostly cry in the night. So once again we take turns in holding our baby and I once more step into my Clown Shoes. Wow! No wonder I dream of sleep, sleep and more sleep during the entire day wondering if I can get a sound sleep atleast for one night.

But thank you Danny, I now have my full time job. I may be tired, but this is something I am proud of- my full time job....! Dad's Life in the Fast Lane!!!

Again this makes me think- how much our parents have sacrificed their time, energy and money in bringing us upto this level! I may still have my arguments with my Mom, but each time I think of this, it makes me even more proud of what our parents have done for us. Thank God for blessing us with family whom we still don't know how much precious they are worth in our lives!

18 comments:

  1. lol.........hope u get time to read this :-)
    good tat Danny boy keeps u on ur toes, one thing which wudn take any effort for you - being the perfect clown :-) was laughing as i read te post... but at te end of te blog senti aakiyallode :-)
    cheers
    pradeep

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  2. @the realist: haha...thanks dude.....dei not senti yaar....truth dude.... :)

    @maria: thanks Maria.... :)

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  3. y shudn truth be senti!!! i believe truth can be everything...from shock or pleasant to disgusting and what u had written is te truth and its also sentimental.

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  4. hey bro, beautifully phrased truth!!! and believe me, i know exactly wat u r going thro'...
    Sonia is blessed to have a partner like u and hope Danny will soon realize wat a gr8 friend & dad he has!!
    Praise God!!!.... Continue to be gr8ly blessed & indeed a blessing to all around....

    PS:: dn't 4get to upload more snaps of u guys...

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  5. Good work mate and thanks for sharing the experiences. I'll be bring my little Hannah in Sep till then I better get some rest :)

    Convey regards to your wife and Danny

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  6. @realist: haha....dude....yes truth can b all dat....but i wrote that truth with pride yaar not with senti....haha....enjoy... :)

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  7. @jeny: heh...thanks sis....v r slowly getting adjusted to our new role...hahaha.....n sure will be uploading new snaps soon.....enjoy... :)

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  8. @denin: haha...dude u better get all the sleep u can....trust me yll really require it....haha...where is baby now?.... :)

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  9. great sumod :) Nice one .........:) Good to know that you are enjoying your time with the baby ...this will be a precious memory in your life ...soon in our life too ....we are waiting for those golden moments :)

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  10. maria side il kudi neat ayit oru seo thalliyalo :D

    pradeep saarinde end of the comment kalaki :)

    senti aakiyalode thanni.... :D

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  11. ah wow!!
    you dont know me, but I am a friend of mary ann (sonia) i used to work with her!
    Parenthood is the toughest job of the lot (i have 2 kiddies) BUT its also the most rewarding! These very tough weeks and months eventually pass, and you will soon get more sleep (i promise)
    a note on the washing front - there is no need to wash all your clothes separately, that is giving yourself a lot of hassle - babies clothes can be put in with yours just do them with a mild powder - all of them together!
    Also, I find cooking lots in batches at the weekend, and then freezing the dishes saves LOTS of time during the week - cook & freeze, then the days you are too tired to make dinner, u can just take something out of the freezer that u have previously made!!
    Sounds like you are doing a great job within your daddy & husband role! Well done!

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  12. Really felt happy to know that you are well settled. Parenthood is not an easy job. But with some patience, love and understanding, and a firm hand most things will work out for the better and you and Sonia are handling it so well!! God bless you and your family!!

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  13. @Divya: heh...thanks divs.....yeah v r trying to treasure every moment.....looking forward to soon hear the good news from yr side too....God bless.... :)

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  14. @Mamta: heh...thanks Mamta....heh...looks like yr really en experienced parent....anyway thanks for the advice....its very helpful....God bless... :)

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  15. @Anonymous: heh...thanks for assuring the sleep part....its a relief to hear that.......heh thanks for the tips on washing n cooking...think we'll slowly put them into practice...well fcos things r slowly settling down normally now so i think we r getting into the next stage- waiting for him to start crawling...haha...thanks very much...by the way sonia couldnt remember u...take care......

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  16. @Sanjoy: heh....edei mone....neat ayitu sideil thalliya alkarepole kore ennam nammal neritu kore kandathallede....haha....dei idhu sentiayitu alla njan ezhuthiyathu....abhimanathode adei.....haha.... :)

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  17. Nice post, Sumod... really.. perhaps u r doing the most satisfying and rewarding duty ever done... its a miracle that God gives us the patience and capability to nurture His gift to us.. Enjoy every moment with little Daniel...

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  18. heh...thanks Jenny....u said the rite thing...God's gift definitely...:)

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